A woman who found out that her fiance was a chronic cheater and had another girlfriend three months before their wedding revealed the "red flags" she ignored to help others get out of toxic relationships.
Devin Allen, 31, from Pennsylvania, was a co-founder of d.i.y.BreakUp with her friend Jessica Heilweil to help those who had to break off their engagements or weddings after leaving their own fraudulent ex.
The ex-bride shared her story openly in a series of videos on her company's TikTok, and shared some examples of the despicable behavior of her manipulative ex.
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Say what? Devin Allen, 31, of Pennsylvania, learned that her fiancé was a fraudster after his text messages were accidentally synced with their laptop 90 days before their wedding
Opening: Devin recorded their split in a series of open TikTok videos
"I was with my ex-fiance for about six years, and 90 days before we were supposed to get married, I found that he had cheated on me in the past six months," Devin said in a clip.
"His text messages were accidentally synced to my laptop, and I found out at his bachelor party that he was texting me and his girlfriend the exact same way," she continues. "He literally copied and pasted the exact same text messages for us."
After finding out, she broke away from him and canceled her wedding. Instead of walking down the aisle, she went to a Beyoncé concert and then got on a plane to fly to Las Vegas with her friends.
Devin moved to a new apartment, traveled and founded her company with her friend in late 2019.
"Life is so much better now," she says, noting that her ex and girlfriend are still together. "I hope you are happy."
Let's go: Instead of walking down the aisle, she went to a Beyoncé concert
About it: Devin celebrated with her friends in Las Vegas, traveled and met new people to overcome the separation
One of her most popular videos about doubting her engagement and finding her ex was cheating before her wedding was viewed more than 4.1 million times.
Not only does she record their breakup, she also describes certain moments in their relationship when she basically caught him as unfaithful, but he managed to talk himself out.
“First of all, I just want to say that my ex-fiance was a real piece of work. There were so many things that went wrong in our relationship, so many red flags that I ignored, ”she says in a video.
"I hope that by sharing some of my stories about things that were going on in our relationship, I can show other people that there are certain things that you shouldn't tolerate [and endure], and sometimes people are real not who you are think you are. & # 39;
Devin recalls one of her “favorite stories” and explains that one night she and her former fiance were lying in bed and saw something on his cell phone when he received a text message that was a video of another woman's breasts.
Doing good: She was a co-founder of d.i.y.BreakUp with her friend Jessica Heilweil to support those who had to cancel their engagements or weddings
She asked him to come back to the message and he did. He had secretly saved the number under one of the names of his fiancé friends.
"He said his friend cheated with a girl they wanted to go to high school with, and he showed that he was sending these videos," she recalls. "Of course I believed him. No further explanation was needed. & # 39;
In another video, she says she caught him rubbing another woman's thigh at the bar when she and her friends met him and his friends one night. When he realized she was there, he brought it to the bathroom as if everything was normal.
"I didn't want to tell him right now because I didn't want him to explode and embarrass me in front of my friends, which is another big red flag in retrospect," she notes.
When they went home later that night and asked him who this woman was, he turned the script over and accused her of spying on him. Instead of answering her questions, he said he couldn't marry anyone who didn't trust him.
& # 39; Red Flag & # 39;: In addition to recording her breakup, she describes certain moments in their relationship when she basically caught him as unfaithful
Contemptuous: Devin's manipulative ex once received a video of someone else's breasts and was caught rubbing another woman's thigh, but spoke out of both situations
Although she basically caught him red-handed, she admits that she apologized to him.
One of the worst stories, however, was when her ex refused to believe that she was sick, even when she was hospitalized.
In the clip, she explains that they had gotten into a big fight and woke up incredibly ill the next morning. He accused her of faking it and went to play golf.
Devin actually passed out from vomiting so much and called her ex to take her to the hospital. He still didn't believe her, but after arguing about it, he finally followed.
However, he stopped to get food on the way and left her in the car for 45 minutes. When he finally came back, he started eating the food in front of her.
Go Viral: One of her most popular videos about doubting her engagement and finding her ex was cheating before her wedding was viewed more than 4.1 million times
Unforgettable moment: In the clip she re-enacts how she found out that her ex cheated on her
"I'm a projectile that vomits out of the window because of the smell," she recalls. "It doesn't get him in phase at all."
When they finally got to the emergency room, Devin was immediately seen because she was so sick, but her ex still insisted that she fake it. She needed three infusions, and then her doctor had to see another doctor because she had the flu and kidney infection.
"While we were waiting, he started playing around with all the different kits they had designed for anyone who came to the emergency room later that night," she says of her ex. "Then when the doctor came in and asked, what was going on, he said again, I pretend and blame myself for the whole thing. "
In the video caption, she revealed that the place where he stopped for food on the way to the emergency room was actually the place where "his offspring was working".
& # 39; This is not a red flag lol. This is God and the whole universe that screams RUN !!!!!!! & # 39; one person commented.
& # 39; Wow, that really hurt to hear. I'm sorry you went through this, and GOOD RIDDANCE to this psycho! I am glad that you are well and that you are now successful! "another added.